This study could not have come at a better time, with the impending changes about to happen in my life! While having a baby is a happy and joyous occasion, it certainly brings an added element of stress into our daily lives.
I think whether you're a parent or not, you can imagine the changes that are involved with having a child: daycare costs, general care for the child and the costs associated with it (diapers, formula, food, clothing, doctor's visits, college education savings, etc), sleepless nights - this list could go on and on. Joel and I have been blessed in that we are both employed fulltime, and so I am less concerned about the added expenditures of having a baby. There will be an impact for sure, but at least we have jobs that can afford us the freedom of worry for caring for her!
Still, there are other stressors that one might not think about as readily when it comes to having a baby. For example, I know until I get into a new routine, my life is not going to be my own anymore. The priority will be caring for her and making sure her needs are met first. Time will be even more of the essence that it is now.
I'm used to my freedom - exercising when I want to, cooking/meal planning and preparation at my convenience, taking college classes toward my nursing degree, reading, swimming, meeting up with friends, making my weight loss journey a priority. This list could also go on and on.
Truth be told, this latter group of things is what I'm most worried about right now. This is a weight loss blog after all. My health and my journey toward getting to goal is still very important to me. I don't want to become that mother who has a baby and never devotes anytime to self-improvement. Afterall, now I have one more reason to want to better my health - to be around for as long as possible to see my child grow up into a beautiful young lady.
One thing that has really resonated with me during this study is a quote the author shared that says:
If the devil can't hinder our relationship with God by making us immoral, he'll simply make us busy.In essence, what this means is that God no longer becomes the center of our universe - other things do. I was taught from a very early age, back in my Sunday school days, the importance of having quiet time with our Lord each day. It is hard to do that when you have a to-do list a mile long, like mine tends to be!
Still, another thing that I've learned during this study, via a participant, is that no matter how busy her day appears to be - if she starts her day with quiet time with the Lord, her day always progresses so much more productively. Sure, she might not get everything done on her to-do list. But she made the one thing that should always be #1 on her to-do list a priority. I've started implementing that same idea into my life, and I really see the positive impacts already. It's hard to explain, but I think what happens is that the other things on my to-do list suddenly become less stressful to accomplish, and also not as important. I almost take on the mentality of, "If it gets done, it gets done. If not, there's always tomorrow." However, many times I am able to knock those things off my list with near ease - I know it's because of how I chose to start my day!
So when the baby comes, I know our lives are going to be turned upside down for awhile until we can get used to this new change. I also know that it's going to become imperative that I pray for God to reveal to me areas of my life that I have to let go of. This might be in the form of finding a new job where my commute isn't as long or my schedule is more flexible, electing to work part time, reading less, getting rid of Facebook/Pinterest (i.e. big time suckers/wasters), etc... whatever it is - I know some things are going to have to go to the wayside for now, if not for forever.
And that's okay!
Afterall, we are about to be blessed with one of the most precious gifts in life, and it's hard to imagine that I'm going to love her anymore than I already do.
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