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Job Search Myths

3:57 PM Anonymous 0

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/9d/ar5b60p5whh02f4m6n9d.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/9d/ar5b60p5whh02f4m6n9d.gif" vt="true" /></a></div>Myths that people believe about looking for a job are many and persistent. The most common ones are these: Myth #1: A résumé should be only one page. Absolutely not! The normal length of a résumé is two to three pages (at most). It is fine to have addendum pages such as a list of references or published articles. A one-page résumé is only appropriate for a recent college grad. Myth #2: If you go on an interview through a contingency or search firm, you cannot speak directly to the person who interviewed you after the interview. The person who interviewed you is either a decision-maker or an influencer in the hiring process. Ask him during the interview if he minds if you contact him with any questions you may have later. If he says no, be skeptical about his interest or style. After all, you are the person who was on the interview, not the recruiting professional who set up your interview. He or she is also someone you can nurture as a networking contact even if you aren't hired. Myth #3: If eight people at a company interviewed you, you need to send a thank-you note only to the person you'd report to if you got the job. Those other seven people took their valuable time to interview you. Of course you should send each one a thank-you note! Myth #4: You shouldn't take notes during an interview. Why not? Nobody has a photographic memory while talking, listening, and processing information. Simply ask the interviewer politely if she minds if you take some notes. Obviously, you should use abbreviations or keywords so that you're not concentrating too hard on taking notes and not focusing enough on the conversation. Myth #5: There is no point in conducting a job search during the summer or in December because companies aren't hiring then. This is absolutely ridiculous. In fact, during the summer, businesspeople are more casual and "laid back" in their attitudes and approaches. They don't tend to be as immersed in stressful projects. What a great time to approach people! In December, companies may be focused on bringing someone on board before the new calendar or fiscal year. People are in a much more celebratory mood during this time of year, and December offers lots of opportunities for networking. Myth #6: The most qualified candidate has the best shot at getting a job offer. Obviously, for most positions, a company needs someone with specific skills and experience. It is also true that many companies still lean toward someone who has worked in the same industry. It is more likely that the individual who fits into the company culture is the one who will get the offer. This means that as a candidate you are accountable for finding out and understanding what the culture is -- the values that shape the company, the way people communicate, and the kinds of people who are respected within the organization. You will not find this kind of information on a Web site or in an annual report. You will find it from talking to people -- the company's employees, vendors, and ex-employees. Myth #7: Only certain components of a job offer are negotiable. The two best times to negotiate with a company are when they ask you to join them, and when they ask you to leave. Anything can be negotiated if you are very clear about what you need and want, and can state the reasons why. You stand the best chance of getting your needs met if you put yourself in the company's shoes during the negotiation. Not only can compensation be negotiated but also the work itself, the way you will do the work, whom you will report to, and every other aspect of the job. Looking for a new job requires many skills, and the more you network, interview, and negotiate, the easier the process becomes. Above all, trust your instincts during your job search. As with any relationship, you may have to make compromises. However, there is absolutely no reason that you shouldn't be able to find the right job -- a job that fits your personality and fulfills your needs. Julie Jansen is the author of "I Don't Know What I Want, But I Know It's Not This." She is a career coach and consultant who is also a frequent speaker at both non-profit groups and corporations through the United States. <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

Job Search Myths

Myths that people believe about looking for a job are many and persistent. The most common ones are these: Myth #1: A résumé should be only one page.Absolutely not! The normal length of a résumé is two to three pages (at most). It is fine to have add…

Asking For -- and Maximizing -- the Informational Interview

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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/00/ar5b5cc6zm4hv2rms900.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/00/ar5b5cc6zm4hv2rms900.gif" vt="true" /></a></div> Do all the employees at your dream company have an MBA? What is a typical day like in a big-city newsroom? What types of questions might someone be asked when interviewing for a position in the health-care industry? If you've got questions about a career, an informational interview might be your ticket to answers. "An informational interview can help you better understand a career, industry, company, organization or specific position you are potentially interested in by finding out what really goes on behind the scenes versus what you've heard or what you imagine," says Debra Condren, author of "Ambition Is Not a Dirty Word," a career guide for women. "Having a more accurate picture will help you decide if this career target really matches your talents, passion, interests, strengths and weaknesses. It will also inform your choice of education and training." How to ask For many people, the prospect of making a blind call to a place of interest can be daunting. It also might not be very fruitful. A better idea is to network your way into an informational interview. "The best approach is to brainstorm about someone you know who may work in the industry or company you're targeting," Condren states. "Does your parent, brother, best friend, roommate or someone you went to college with know someone who knows someone who would send an e-mail on your behalf asking if it's OK for you to contact them?" Alumni offices and college career centers also can be good places to turn. James Greeley, director of career services and cooperative education at Merrimack College in North Andover, Mass., notes that his institution routinely provides informational interview services for students and graduates. "The programs are staffed by human resource personnel and hiring managers from a variety of corporations as well as Merrimack College alumni who volunteer to offer their expertise and assistance." When picking up the phone or writing to someone to set up an informational interview, Condren recommends the following to help things run smoothly: Mention your mutual connection. Ask for a precise amount of time. (As in, "I was wondering if I could have fifteen minutes of your time.") Approach the person with two or three very specific questions. (As in "I'm interested in your opinion on which majors train you best for this field.") It gives the interviewer a preview of what you want to discuss and shows that you have taken the initiative to define what you're trying to accomplish. Treat it like a job interview If you are interested enough in a field or a company to set up an informational interview, there is a chance that down the line you might want to use this connection when seeking employment. Make a good first impression by: Dressing professionally Treating everyone you encounter politely Arriving early Doing your homework; you should be asking for insight, not basic information available on a Web site Preparing a list of questions that gets at exactly what you want to know While it may seem that you are the one with everything to gain from an informational interview, remember that companies also can benefit. "We're always looking for top talent, and an informational interview is another chance to meet a potential candidate," says Holly Paul, national recruiting leader for PricewaterhouseCoopers, one of the world's largest professional services firms. "It provides an opportunity for us to share what we do and learn how the candidate might fit into our organization." Express gratitude The person who granted the informational interview provided a valuable service and should be thanked accordingly for sharing her time and expertise. While a timely e-mail is considered acceptable by some experts, a mailed note may be better. "Sending an old fashioned hand-written card will make you stand out," Condren states. "It saves the person who did the interview from having to open one more in his or her daily gazillion e-mails." Finally, remember to keep the lines of communication open for future contact. How to do this without becoming a pest? Paul suggests that before the interview even ends that you ask how you should follow-up, and then follow that advice. Later, take a moment in your thank-you note to restate your interest in potential future opportunities. A small, but genuine, gesture now can be a building block for bigger things to come. By Beth Braccio Hering, special to CareerBuilder <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

Asking For -- and Maximizing -- the Informational Interview

Do all the employees at your dream company have an MBA? What is a typical day like in a big-city newsroom? What types of questions might someone be asked when interviewing for a position in the health-care industry? If you've got questions about a ca…

Success Stories: I Found a Job after Long-Term Unemployment By Beth Braccio Hering, CareerBuilder writer.

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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/f8/ar5b4346jld4dwzvdcf8.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/f8/ar5b4346jld4dwzvdcf8.gif" vt="true" /></a></div>Headline after headline about corporate downsizing and businesses folding can leave you wondering: Is anybody out there actually finding a job? Yes (though oftentimes not very quickly). Here are three real-life success stories of people who persevered through prolonged unemployment before landing a new position. Volunteer work leads to paid position "During unemployment, I became extremely hard on myself, questioning what was wrong with me as a job candidate that would cause my searching to be so fruitless," says Margaret White of New York City, who encountered a not-very-welcoming job market after leaving school in 2008. "I also felt enormously guilty that I was a burden on my family financially. It was stressful not knowing where my future was headed and how I was going to support myself." Needing a morale boost, White decided to volunteer with Step Up Women's Network, a nonprofit organization dedicated to connecting and advancing women and girls. "At first I started coming in on an as-needed basis, but during that time, I cultivated a relationship with the program manager," White states. "She started bringing me in more frequently to work on projects. Eventually, I asked if I could come in every day. I recognized that I was gaining a new, invaluable skill set and making amazing connections through the organization, not to mention I was loving the work. Eventually, the program manager left to attend graduate school, and I was the best-trained candidate for the job. I applied, and they hired me!" Networking proves good use of time After downsizing in January 2009 left Barbara Cooper without a job, she went to local "job seeker" meetings, registered with various companies on their Web sites and checked job boards. Primarily, though, she focused on networking. Her efforts paid off a year later when a former co-worker recommended her for an open position. Cooper is now the Learning Center Administrator for Children's Healthcare of Atlanta. "I knew that sooner or later I would find something, primarily because I had no other choice," Cooper says. "I kept reminding myself that every rejection -- whether it was résumés that didn't get responses or phone interviews that didn't lead to anything -- was one less step between me and my next position. I told myself, since it was taking so long to find another position, that the position that was waiting for me must be really terrific -- and it is!" Thinking about what you really want -- and finding it An account executive at a high-profile marketing/advertising agency, Sarah Humphreys of Burlington, Vt., was in shock when company layoffs left her unemployed. Though she admits that at first it was "hard not to take it personally," she eventually decided to make the best of her unexpected time off. "I was lucky enough not to have to rush back into anything. I reevaluated what I really wanted to do with my career. If I was ever going to change career paths, this was the time to do it. Eventually I came out knowing that account management is really what I love and enjoy doing." Armed with this knowledge, Humphreys began looking at area companies that interested her and applied for positions that matched what she wanted to do. After many people told her that Dealer.com was a great place to work, she looked at the company's Web site and discovered an opening that matched her career desires. She is now an account manager at this leading provider of online marketing tools for the automotive industry. Best yet, the company hasn't laid off a single employee in more than four years. Her advice for other job seekers: "Keep looking. It is exhausting, but something will come along. Everything happens for a reason. You will end up finding a company and a job that you love." <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

Success Stories: I Found a Job after Long-Term Unemployment By Beth Braccio Hering, CareerBuilder writer.

Headline after headline about corporate downsizing and businesses folding can leave you wondering: Is anybody out there actually finding a job? Yes (though oftentimes not very quickly). Here are three real-life success stories of people who persevere…

5 Tips for Job Hunting in the Twittersphere

3:51 PM Anonymous 0

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/5f/ar5b5xq6jm8m4bh1xj5f.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/5f/ar5b5xq6jm8m4bh1xj5f.gif" vt="true" /></a></div>Gaining a great deal of support from career industry professionals, recruiters and human resource specialists worldwide, Twitter is revolutionizing how people hunt for jobs in today's economy. How? Susan Britton Whitcomb, co-author of "The Twitter Job Search Guide," explains: "In the past, you had to go through a maze of gatekeepers to get to the cloistered person in charge of hiring decisions. Now you can have access to them with the click of a Follow button. The ability to level the playing field -- placing you nearly peer-to-peer with influencers, leaders and hiring authorities -- is extremely powerful." And that's not all. "Using Twitter you can find insight, encouragement, connections, job leads and company insider information in bite-sized messages of 140 characters or less," co-author Chandlee Bryan adds. "You can also get advice from some of the world's most respected career experts on everything from starting your search to negotiating salary. It's like fishing for trout at a pond that's been stocked in advance." Whether you're job hunting via Twitter now or plan to in the future, there are some key guidelines to keep in mind. Whitcomb, Bryan and co-author Deb Dib offer the following advice for writing high-impact tweets and succeeding in the Twittersphere: "Active participation is essential," Bryan says. "If you build a community, help will come. Job seekers who get the most out of Twitter use it to expand their networks and achieve a sense of community. They not only ask for help, but also engage with others." "Be upfront about interests and career objectives," Whitcomb stresses. "We talked to several job seekers who searched for new positions after being laid off. While their individual approaches varied in terms of when and how they chose to advertise their availability, a common theme emerged: successful job seekers were specific about what they wanted. They let others know their skills, strengths and preferred job function." "Acknowledge that the job search is a relationship-building process -- not an 'I-need-a-job' transaction," Dib says. "The job search is like dating; it takes time to build a relationship. If you ask for a long-term commitment the first time you meet someone, chances are good that you will be disappointed. And so it is with Twitter -- building a strong network that can generate job leads takes time. You may find job listings overnight, but it takes time to grow connections with hiring managers and influencers." "Be transparent in expressing appreciation and progress," Bryan advises. "While some job searches require confidentiality, many of the job seekers we spoke with used a very transparent approach. This included posting regular updates on the status of their job search, as well as shout-outs to individuals who had helped them." "Be clear about your brand," Dib says. "Successful job seekers have a distinct brand that helps their networking contacts and prospective employers get a quick picture of who they are, how they work and how their talents would bring value to the table." By Selena Dehne career writer for JIST Publishing who shares the latest occupational, career and job search information available with job seekers and career changers. She is also the author of JIST's Job Search and Career Blog (http://jistjobsearchandcareer.blogspot.com/). <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

5 Tips for Job Hunting in the Twittersphere

Gaining a great deal of support from career industry professionals, recruiters and human resource specialists worldwide, Twitter is revolutionizing how people hunt for jobs in today's economy.How? Susan Britton Whitcomb, co-author of "The Twitter Job…

Why You Should Consider a Job With the Federal Government

3:49 PM Anonymous 0

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/g4/ar5b1ys5zj2fklg1x6g4.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/g4/ar5b1ys5zj2fklg1x6g4.gif" vt="true" /></a></div>As the economy continues to recover and we see more encouraging news regarding employment -- inevitably, people start thinking about finding new work. According to findings from the 2009 Kelly Global Work force Index, 40 percent of employees across the United States intend to look for another job within the next year, including as many as 62 percent of workers from Generation X (ages 30-47). Their reasons for moving on vary -- ranging from personal preference, to better personal reward or compensation, or simply because new opportunities came available. What motivates you most when you're ready to find a new job? Rank these in order of importance: a) Personal preference for one working environment over another b) Desire for fair compensation c) Need for intangible benefits from work d) It's just a matter of availability in your line of work or in your geographic area The good news? No matter what inspires you to get to work every weekday, you'll find some compelling rationale for seeking employment with the federal government, according to research released by the Partnership for Public Service. Below is a guide with detail related to your favorite reasons: Availability ... If all the motivation you need to change jobs is access to a new opportunity, then your prospects for government work are better currently than in some areas of the private sector. Already the nation's largest employer with nearly 1.9 million on its payroll, studies predict another 244,000 new employees to be hired by federal agencies before 2012 -- a need driven by retiring baby boomers. ... in your specialty Better still, new positions are expected across nearly every category and discipline of employment: from administrative and office work; to professional areas like accounting, marketing, law or health care; to technical specialties within engineering, IT and science. ... and in your neighborhood Before you assume most jobs are in our nation's capital, check the facts: almost 85 percent of federal jobs are actually outside the D.C. area. States with the highest number of federal employees include California, Florida, Georgia, Maryland, New York, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia and Washington state. Another 44,000 federal jobs are based abroad. As a model for work force diversity, the federal government ensures equal opportunity to all Americans regardless of age, gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation or disability. Roughly 44 percent of the federal work force are women, and 33 percent are minorities. Military veterans are actively recruited through organizations like the U.S. Office of Personnel Management (OPM), which offers programs for helping out-of-work veterans find jobs in the public sector. Personal preference ... With such a vast array of employment scope and scale available across federal operations and agencies worldwide, the government can offer a work environment suited to almost any personal preference -- in the laboratory, the office, the field, the courtroom or the classroom. Are you a scientist, nurse or an IT technician who happens to love medicine? Check the National Institutes of Health (NIH), the world's foremost medical research center. Engineer? Try NIH or the Department of Energy. Crime fighter? There's always the Department of Justice. The possibilities extend in every conceivable direction. Are you a world traveler? The State Department operates an embassy or consulate in 180 countries. Want to make a difference? Federal employees address the most urgent national issues facing Americans today. Wherever your interests lie, a federal cabinet or agency is addressing it in some respect. Compensation and benefits ... And if you always took for granted that federal pay lags the private sector, think again. ... in material form Federal compensation is shown time and again to be competitive with the private sector, often offering better or more comprehensive health- and child-care benefits, plus innovative savings plans. Federal agencies offer hundreds of different scholarship opportunities and can help pay back up to $10,000 per year in student loans. Some will even pay for you to pursue an advanced degree or executive program at a local college or university -- nearly 75 percent of public-sector employees have some post-secondary education. ... and the intangible Just 26 percent of the federal work force is under the age of 40. Much like their baby boomer counterparts, as many as 70 percent of senior federal executives will retire over the next few years -- lending to faster career advancement in the near term. The government offers state-of-the-art training for employees interested in learning new skill sets or advancing their professional development. Government work also facilitates an exceptional work/life balance through flexible work schedules and programs like job sharing, telecommuting or on-site child care. Studies estimate that during President Obama's full term, new hiring for all types of federal government positions will reach nearly 600,000 employees–almost one-third of the current work force, with a 41 percent increase in mission-critical hiring compared to previous years. It might be time to see what Uncle Sam has to offer your career ambitions! Kelly Government Solutions (KGS) provides experienced staff to the federal government and its key suppliers, including prime and small business contractors. Through services such as government contract staffing, work force management, project management, and contract compliance services, KGS supplies talent to both public and private sectors alike. For more information, please visit http://www.kellygovernmentsolutions.com/. The Kelly Global Work force Index is an annual survey revealing opinions about work and the workplace from a generational viewpoint. Results of the 2009 survey from across North America, Europe, and Asia Pacific gave insight into the rapidly changing global work force -- and how it affects the way companies recruit and retain talent. <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

Why You Should Consider a Job With the Federal Government

As the economy continues to recover and we see more encouraging news regarding employment -- inevitably, people start thinking about finding new work. According to findings from the 2009 Kelly Global Work force Index, 40 percent of employees across t…

When Getting a Paycheck Means Taking a Pay Cut

3:48 PM Anonymous 0

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/sm/ar5b1x66czd0c8x1n4sm.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/sm/ar5b1x66czd0c8x1n4sm.gif" vt="true" /></a></div>From Harvey Mackay, author of "Use Your Head to Get Your Foot in the Door: Job Search Secrets No One Else Will Tell You" All the stars are aligning. You've been offered a great opportunity, maybe even your dream job: the company you've admired, top-notch staff, terrific benefits, ideal location. You've aced the interview, and you know you'd be a perfect fit. What more could you ask for? Maybe that's the wrong question. Maybe you should be asking, what less would you be willing to take? A 2009 CNN Money report says, "With more than three job seekers for every opening, more workers are having to take significant pay cuts to find employment." Many are out of work through no fault of their own and can't afford to wait for the dream job to open. Others discover the jobs they had weren't right for them -- too much responsibility, too many hours, burnout or philosophical differences. Whatever the reason, plenty of qualified people who are looking for jobs have real challenges convincing interviewers that they can work for less and be content. What motivates hiring decisions Shrinking company budgets force managers to get maximum bang for the buck while finding ways to maintain or grow business. Hiring decisions have greater impact when fewer employees must carry the load. A bad hire can be disastrous. Try to explain to a hiring manager that you are interested in taking a job that includes a pay cut and a number of questions pop up: Were you overpaid at your last job? Will you jump ship the minute a more lucrative opportunity is presented? Will you be able to survive on a smaller salary? If you are such a bargain, why hasn't someone else hired you already? Do you have some ulterior motive? Hiring managers look for competent people who are confident in their abilities. Your biggest selling point, surprisingly, isn't your price tag. You have demonstrated that you are flexible, willing to take on a new challenge, bring great experience with you and can't wait to get started. You are prepared to work as hard as you can to advance the company's goals. The interviewer is starting to wonder why any company would have let you slip away. Being up front As an astute candidate, you know that salary negotiations come much later, after you have convinced the interviewer that you are the best candidate for the position. Be honest when you are asked why you are willing to work for less. "I know that the market can't support my previous salary, but I have much to offer and can make a positive contribution to this company's success." "I love my work and I was sorry when my former company eliminated our department. I am willing to prove my commitment by working for free for 60 days." "My company relocated to another state. My wife's job is here, and we chose not to move our family even though it meant giving up my job." "I know that times are tough everywhere, and I am willing to help the company move to profitability knowing that the employee contributions will be rewarded at a later time." Stating your reasons in direct, honest terms will mitigate fears that you are looking for a glorified temp job until something better comes along. Few companies have been exempt from downsizing or budget reductions. Relating that reality to your personal situation can reassure the interviewer that your expectations are reasonable. One cautionary note: Don't apologize for showing interest in a lower-paying job. Your worth can't be measured only in dollars. A pay cut may mean a better job or the path to one. Keep your options open! Mackay's Moral: You can move from survive to thrive. By Harvey Mackay author of the new book "Use Your Head to Get Your Foot in the Door: Job Search Secrets No One Else Will Tell You," as well as the New York Times No. 1 bestsellers "Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive" and "Beware the Naked Man Who Offers You His Shirt." Mackay is a nationally syndicated columnist for United Feature Syndicate, whose weekly articles appear in 52 newspapers around the country, including the Chicago Sun Times, Rocky Mountain News, Orange County Register, Minneapolis Star Tribune and Arizona Republic. <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

When Getting a Paycheck Means Taking a Pay Cut

From Harvey Mackay, author of "Use Your Head to Get Your Foot in the Door: Job Search Secrets No One Else Will Tell You" All the stars are aligning. You've been offered a great opportunity, maybe even your dream job: the company you've admired, top-n…

The little train that could

3:46 PM Tukiyooo 0

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfkVUtRTLubXLDPSsrl1tRWBz-xInEKa_3ohjIWyuCiCFYptUmnm23d7c8hQlVcFHNCI8S03qzFjcRU-3cbo38LMz5SwHrw0P_TWBGWTXk1R9MQzCu2DbpdJBv9z94DxWPKtO6pywsdvSj/s1600-h/Weight+March+20_2010.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="141" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfkVUtRTLubXLDPSsrl1tRWBz-xInEKa_3ohjIWyuCiCFYptUmnm23d7c8hQlVcFHNCI8S03qzFjcRU-3cbo38LMz5SwHrw0P_TWBGWTXk1R9MQzCu2DbpdJBv9z94DxWPKtO6pywsdvSj/s320/Weight+March+20_2010.jpg" vt="true" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div>I managed to get showered, dressed and drive to my Weight Watchers 11 a.m. meeting today. Even though I still feel stuffed up with a runny nose I wanted to see the results of a week of really trying to stay on plan. I'm one of the unfortunates that when I'm sick I'm more hungry than when I'm not sick. Instead of my usual, "poor me, I'm sick, eat whatever I want" attitude". . I really worked on re-wiring my head this past week (thanks Roxie!). I decided just because I didn't feel good, it didn't mean I had to eat whatever and whenever I wanted. I tried to eat mostly filling foods (the green diamond foods) and cut out as much processed food as possible. For example, no Weight Watchers junk food...ice cream bars, since it seems it's impossible for me to eat just one of any of their products (more on this later). I also ate every three hours and really tried to make every snack a "complete" snack of a protein and a carb. The snacks are never over two Points. Something small, just to take the edge off the hunger. The other thing I did this week that I haven't done in months is that I allowed myself to feel a little hungry. Not the starving to death hunger, but a little bit hungry. I have to accept that it's normal to get hungry between meals. It's not a bad thing, in fact, it means my body is probably digging into its stored fat for energy. It won't kill me to have a few hunger pains. I just need to accept it as part of life. I'm pretty happy about this week's results. It just proves that I still know how to do this, I know what it takes to get to where I want to go. A few tweaks here and there and I'm back on track. My husband reminded me today that we're going to Denver the first part of May for our niece's graduation from college. She completed her Master's in five years which is cause for celebration. All of my husband's family will be there so I really need to get back down below 160 by May 8. As the little train that could said...I think I can, I think I can...

The little train that could

I managed to get showered, dressed and drive to my Weight Watchers 11 a.m. meeting today. Even though I still feel stuffed up with a runny nose I wanted to see the results of a week of really trying to stay on plan.I'm one of the unfortunates that wh…

What Jobs in Security Pay

3:45 PM Anonymous 0

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/ns/ar5b7xm6t0qb3z1cczns.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://emj.icbdr.com/artieimages/ns/ar5b7xm6t0qb3z1cczns.gif" vt="true" /></a></div> To say modern culture is obsessed with security is an understatement. No politician runs for office without assuring voters that security is a top priority. Financial institutions and the government spent the last two years vowing that your money is safe and secure. Local news commercials constantly ask if your children are safe. (How secure is your child's school? Find out at 11.) Walk through an airport and you'll hear an announcement about security concerns every 10 minutes. Yes, we're surrounded by talk of security everywhere we go, but do you ever think about the people who have these jobs that are providing us security in some form or another? With the word "security" floating around all the time, you can become numb to the whole topic. Yet, you probably are secure as you go about your day, which means the people in charge of your safety are doing a good job. To give workers in the security field their fair due, here are 10 jobs in various industries that help keep us safe: 1. Air Force pilots What they do: As part of the armed forces, Air Force pilots have several responsibilities, which range from combat missions to providing support to those in combat to conducting training. What they earn: $122,388* 2. Airport security screeners What they do: Before airline passengers can get to their gates, they and their belongings have to pass through security. Using metal detectors, scanners and other tools, screeners ensure that no dangerous items make it into the airport or onto a plane. What they earn: $54,938 3. Armored car guards What they do: Armored car guards either transport valuable goods (such as currency) or drive people who are transporting valuable goods from one location to another. They keep the passengers and items safe while in transit, preventing any attacks or robberies that could occur. What they earn: $32,955 4. Bouncers What they do: Clubs, bars and concert venues rely on bouncers to check IDs of patrons entering the establishments. They also monitor the crowd throughout the night in order to remove any person who is rowdy or disturbing other patrons. What they earn: $32,532 5. Computer security specialists What they do: Working for an organization, computer security specialists are responsible for identifying and addressing potential security threats. One of their primary responsibilities (and greatest tools against threats) is educating users about dangers and security hazards. What they earn: $46,370 6. Gaming surveillance officers What they do: Working in casinos, gaming surveillance officers monitor customers and employees to ensure that neither are stealing or cheating. What they earn: $31,550 7. Police officers What they do: Police officers keep cities, its neighborhoods and citizens safe. One of their many responsibilities is to respond to emergency calls, ranging from home intrusion to violent crimes. What they earn: $52,810 8. Secret Service special agents What they do: Under the Department of Homeland Security, Secret Service agents protect the president, vice president, their families and other politicians. They also investigate certain fraudulent financial transactions.| What they earn: $50,787** 9. Security and fire alarm systems installers What they do: They install equipment for security systems and fire alarms for organizations and private residences. They also perform maintenance and attend to any wiring needs specifically related to these systems. What they earn: $38,630 10. Security guards What they do: Security guard duties vary depending on place of employment, which includes stores, businesses, office buildings and more. For example, in retail stores, they monitor customers to prevent shoplifting, while at banks they prevent robberies. What they earn: $25,840 *Salary information based on data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics and CBSalary.com. **Secret Service special agents salary based on starting salary, according to the United States Secret Service Web site. By Anthony Balderrama writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com and its job blog, The Work Buzz. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/abalderrama. <a class="addthis_button" href="http://addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=rockfordlink"><img alt="Bookmark and Share" height="16" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" width="125" /></a><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=rockfordlink" type="text/javascript"></script>

What Jobs in Security Pay

To say modern culture is obsessed with security is an understatement. No politician runs for office without assuring voters that security is a top priority. Financial institutions and the government spent the last two years vowing that your money is …

Day 1 in Florida!

6:57 AM Tukiyooo 0

Thursday we made it to Florida by 3pm local time! Can you see the excitement in our faces?!?!? <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxqlOd2CzzkqKTMmjw9sZLLGvDZZzuAnxLdOEwIbCeFsF5RGwXq3hHttc5m8DP1K6LaLtK_xomOEhMexv9_WR0OppnEXrq2m2XD9Lm20iru_lGE5NY-AH6UareMgGIhRwT8Iu9406dbm8O/s1600-h/DSC06445%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06445" border="0" height="471" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPEHdxUdI4Bbt_VpfUG7u06shMf_8rhA7wt_jokSLHmbcqxJzD2ZTeQQgwIJkpx8e_STm6Ve2dqs2lX9ATzn9uPDV0TQCaU5DpoJsTwStD9MaJxDSBNVMy-3HbWYQkcyxEQxSXH7gqiKYC/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06445" width="354" /></a>  My little sister, Wendi, picked us up from the airport and we headed to Clearwater Beach! <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipirlkX5IH2Q0Bz9aNtPNPeOCFtnc7RAr6x3VF1JepR_GXPYwUI04Lnc_sBlUUt_aKlsdju7y2rCSh2vjyb3F5mhgaQsm3uU6XxtQEfULe3v4qO5Z6n5qg4EhC8pQaLJvWe3lgZnPPaF1b/s1600-h/DSC06451%5B4%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06451" border="0" height="132" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSe8mHRtgkrxTfB3uo-hyhyphenhyphenSZGHpa4uk2WBmNkPm0RmHtAzvGvaUmotMleSquLEbdKTQtGflRyalzcw9cVo5o74BltiEk-e532JtcPy6Xtts4b-r9BHuW0QuIE96b4l0OSe9TsO2dnssrO/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06451" width="404" /></a>  This place holds a special place in our hearts, Kyle and I spent our first 6 days of married life here…AKA our honeymoon!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2eWWYvKfUFTCHE8oNfjAZ2G9m3mD6U1qegsu1EQ5nGg2_zYCiBcdQiwjzgvKapMNWWORLKx9lnHptEGtHyjOXxHjhFy2AcJUtjy0huOnljKyYFqOoz-Dao_fPsc_NqWN5ReexuuGxKd4e/s1600-h/DSC06467%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06467" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUTmsAsf6oPJgrJqs4F-0w5kMnWO4S_KVXdBUA9U5HHCmAoDyTlfcSZ45z22IChxdhJuboVcMtFd-jeSws9yRy0j4rn9L-Q0_LlZSMptHZCp7TomcCpuJe-EmwPJt9IiITxbLoab1I9Qo5/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06467" width="404" /></a> It was windy and only about 60 degrees, which is quite nice compared to Iowa..but I think on the water it makes it much colder! We still wanted to at least get our toes wet!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIjf6PsuUzRG1NiC5nS8BUaJpRSvZ5s6v-UzyXDPPS_AiUjY5LSUan_5l9SFOouH2Ve1ZqzhbHC9LGzbXHe7ISwpQq6Q_y-1BSnZ279oG4b1qmrkX6mXOViJk07W_HYrjcGaRDhMos2Ehc/s1600-h/DSC06455%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06455" border="0" height="471" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSVK0SK1UURwceGvN3M8rsqEuXtA3JOHTNhwdGI8NJ7uQbNjbWXDXp9vyM44hl2ntwznAkf5MVV3wx1KjlZsk0aLUScXl_FFs8zjWCzWdCRiJ7alUKAbhz-iaiZP2gp4N_1rZsOQrzGlrT/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06455" width="354" /></a>  Kyle says it’s a “little” cold! ;)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnrTomC2c4_yN16gAhWgN9CZwUjTx7-nZAslP7NB47TirUei1E6P8iZSrWSsZ8dfi0j1tT-iQA1vesJoFOm3QgO8F2EKpwfVolPdgJzkISf1TA37UWLs722XfkmamNm2GI2UotSc52ewD3/s1600-h/DSC06457%5B4%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06457" border="0" height="558" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtK8_ZFkpVRlJu9xxDaevPmN1FgmAod62a2dEfeBtgC12k_8kBifks8LfUdYgZqfckqNpviCckV_l8CtLaSDijJXNVkTaaE5Ztp18yNfgkBZZBXfAiQpoxledTouVWkafGk6pgcxLqhamc/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06457" width="299" /></a>      Defiantly brought back LOTS of memories being in our honeymoon spot…it’s been almost 5 years! I sure do love this guy!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj12WkIi__oUTRdza6ioJb8wM1UGg7zr_MxEzki-nhGLSJMZSirRIVADOrtbe9K9IWHqKFw9QH1uZa_v9TBNBAxsiBt3Uo3ekva1WF44TPDayr90yXB07cgkI7CQUhTS5sJ5dpNKQGaVEZL/s1600-h/DSC06463%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06463" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgr0qlS75F281G3ADOBbpnHek8nSzeYjgsOGRUff-hsR598lOHLUWY3et0zngB7goiQ2FX7L4ADVe7B-NKTekHrWNPaXu5YCv6boYe7BJyfwl2aZGAJbQDH3DE8O_MJkZ5FuktNA6ak26Vt/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06463" width="404" /></a>  After getting out feet wet we walked around for a little bit. This guy was doing some street entertainment…he was actually really quite good!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfxO88A5eVi39MyRFgV2hqF1qB56WajFMvjbdqu3RPRLGiQPrLE-jvHZXpBhOJ-HIuW0Lq6CHHEa2yeuNS3K2cBzmaVLyUYpftHaMfWnB0aJtPLadKZ_-wiE2yU1QESEYi5ahzotK6rvc8/s1600-h/DSC06465%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06465" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieKlZ_W-wbEFMVNok_ywCCjOz5dRXhrX5O4CmhcJ1bP66_CfJikrqLCO6pxRkHAgTpwqVwpONGlTUj3eMwzNJjg0FUSJXvsS2OGU3Eb_dkJj7PFrpOqRg3s31lVQwzVdxtPd5Ve3xMEWt0/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06465" width="404" /></a>    We walked down Pier 60! <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUoRSbHI6nlPjZGHzAb3HGREjPQdveuLy2GJyDC-zCl1v3ZRBdeUyEitlcZxzK-YUxODmZsus9a_pPaPI4xR-4Hs3wI2OHYQBgFhNRjAsCSwNQ_IAyoSigYaaN1YWIACfbgACCgMZVcBH0/s1600-h/DSC06470%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06470" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrR6DlUGVEDumFyq7glyoLpOJtXys6Ikibg4hBbpE0JSngO5xsihL8qZaz7na0d-yKnwgTlVzQSatjn1zkKFkRs9KwVR3MibSJ1CHOkRLrhDWqzduVkdHkM1soUW-hMUadseltzAcEt17_/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06470" width="404" /></a>  Live statue! He was funny…a kid walked up to him and then he moved and it scared the kid! I’m sure I would have jumped too!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZfGk9L9cpqy_EHiTM1ja5tY2AgyrL-e91Ld0Qi68UbJYRDF2kOKoHDX56lkjO41ZhXuEZAZf5jMn3CfmbJEQtCy3dG6-nm7ChOcHlDBjCOPEwhjCiEsXHjUc_K3oSCK7i_Q9KSkdTVKw5/s1600-h/DSC06471%5B8%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06471" border="0" height="397" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifIGCDdV63dFC8KGEtn0xcAEoBfu9L3Phs4WKuAbK9gJx_Y9MN2NU_ol-pFuOPNZA6-KyhkuBBPYz-jpHY0BKynD_zbxe9wl48R0uxcvtSvgSNBM0Bc5H4x5Avk0nYxDptgz_bIDfgwU-f/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06471" width="304" /></a>  We walked down and shopped in all the fun little souvenir shops! Ever seen “tubeflops” before? lol<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpbiz47Ct5bTEANxs99qMXR31tlCQy7U30UbvZqQW9wGsM3fx2xUgVzf484wcrkhCX9nIlfL-obGvsxtzdWuhGWpHP5bOPqLYWTnBQvNRo2f3aCW0yMEPr0Qys8RQ5z_hpYbfYDOekT0Qc/s1600-h/DSC06473%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06473" border="0" height="404" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhr7nQUgKvHxlp6uqUlD1BxZ9XMmsfCSHw997kDoI-VQA3PegIIm1Av5Xn4wPxBUAxa3-X7tjyalhzOHIqIl6Ee_F5w7fyTJN0aBtyEwgHyQHs5p7cjKOYUNcDEqNVHggnRO4z0Rs1BilQQ/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06473" width="304" /></a>  Ha ha, not sure they are quite my style!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrnrSgcB3cwS8eQej8MZ4Ihcyw7G1Ee5RzaTdaqGhtFm4Bo16mldjYwOnnU6zfLXpIUSIfl-3NGKVZXGruJHclYgyKP0vq371ftfVEaLmeXgmo7QPbxqv7583Sx5JIqd8iwhn0VSuxfrdt/s1600-h/DSC06474%5B4%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06474" border="0" height="505" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj81L5QDVYFOotybkaMj8bjzZmbL3TlVcvS0IaWoOYAa8f8dqEo4MLs7M1eM135Lzalgi9V8smAJwUIpU4z0O5GPsJ9uloxhI0CoZm__O5zxxk8C_JXurAf0gQiXX91tuK_naPscgjd9psB/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06474" width="330" /></a>  After Clearwater we drove through Tampa and stopped at a Fro-Yo place…berryism!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjb7hDatktJIn2g8I7800AloQOruQAU6NPfwRPg7nIt3N3Wps28nkgwMwTc3_JCdzgPkBtfltViFXp2cRXjT6gvtGgLLrCJnEUVKhEeLksDBnmJpJfhGIH4qATpqwntapFJufHK1-J54GnP/s1600-h/DSC06475%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06475" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaepqurQm0DP7KCu2lAOQ6IvqAIbCf1Veildi9b04kFYQUa8tV_yVMuOhqbfve97i8nNpAqx1HjI9MLGr17vOKc0HUiTg05aLxjdPXcZQ0yzwS7xgbyPIruozqUaNJXUBBOSFKWlMzxVkw/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06475" width="404" /></a>  Happiness in a cap is right!! :)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghGh7UpYYwDa7Oc00i0PmgDcqizJbba95e7qNAi8CJKxwxAJsknQa7SBNSyzAxD9D-T-bxOyIBMHVdV-zzpXjI2tEZ3u6QOS1FxKBgCFMtEAciKq_vZuhhHt1_KGqJEwLPm7WLyoi1PfSc/s1600-h/DSC06476%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06476" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKTDQ4h2i7fF9kS0dF2IbIuOB3MAVLPAsYPcf71vX2ajUsFVuaM9c2yHQspnk8MaFx8br8IGp6a0E8_GAYxtMdLT8wJRSE4JO1YMv5Hr-iAjxKJUyqRmhswb1l-98XVmTe5MSjpk7y_BLq/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06476" width="404" /></a>  I got peanut butter chocolate fro-yo and topped it with green M&Ms , mini chocolate chips, Oreo pieces, and green & white sprinkles! MMMMmmm good!!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzAuppmSTlWPuy2hGoUBBHjxTWZuC1EaBDB6_Os3SjOGTY8etg7Ey9rM2N5PFK3A8P_6ges9fL8hRNF7cGd34kfQibQQniRqG9t-fTxBeGZHWVbAoY__C7YNovXvx1mXf-QqxTk_LCSNsE/s1600-h/DSC06478%5B4%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06478" border="0" height="397" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6q9U4f-hHOXxUPVC-nocto6o02v_-pZU58PwXIhXTeFF4STXXB6OwX7sCcwUrHjM3YPXiwNODeJOoBmM7GBaUE9a7wux0jf408yhTUilUHQxSzN1DE_NpF7dzoOtOkMJ6khSH6qHRWRRd/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06478" width="354" /></a>  Wendi loved it too!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPKDhKVAFTtG6wEtO1h7klI0F-ypQklIebH_xAmbMxSSh0PVd41AO4QrzBw1ISKz-53RPMUD5B1355agBJ0dgq1rSfj16_oIlpb_OmCAJiEltYvXZac0XDQzU7rBa8zWy9lV7NYZr2zyz0/s1600-h/DSC06479%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06479" border="0" height="471" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh72svz5TFmkeEyFAnzXOFN1xf5keS7B4d538pwzNqx0VzfIm8Art-CNXQW4Et4ag3ZzrrINH1LMX3EUXKCDpMyRckWfj0Pq-t5SD1iRBThBR4_Gshw4xuCoP_q7XpIDEl7cEvn28MqBQFU/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06479" width="354" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcfqLBTGVycq-4WfHN_M3IhxM_jiECWLl3uiULpf3x2sohiVameDjuLhFRejjWSxWFthns2a-i9jnxWopfRtqXV-7HrGDu-7NqBbUdrHbc9WNjZCKcxq-GNnVTnAGhnEGCuYSseSUQ6H0g/s1600-h/DSC06480%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06480" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCu6fFhQZ2BT7Ydgn1BiPBscgge-tN7jz-cOzudQ9ZBacNp2FtV1hTbKaWM3Vu87dKa0TQ7RloLtF4_LiBovyN3YA4PuhK469k3TordCYWtx1S9UHTvtQQ_9d-yQOk7QWXx8uqqXMce68R/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06480" width="404" /></a>  After our Fro-Yo stop Wendi drove us around Tampa. We say the Bay and LOTS of SUPER nice houses. Then she remembered her friend of hers told her about Derek Jeter building a house on Davis Island in Tampa. So I looked it up on my phone and we drove by it….all 30,800 sq ft!! Sheesh!! It was so big I couldn’t get it all in the shot! Kyle made it though! ;)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFh_Rb04yLeA6DjA2o5DGY8igJe4YEXKIOP3350NH8bhYQ62UNOfrgVSe6HVJskLRc876s4Fs4FTE58vcMbl8JrJPPUUULlvpWutlxbvfxrK2BhSgiERvKh7RIn3O47M33nNAAZhOMrZEj/s1600-h/DSC06482%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06482" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgelyZPXq-hR8aQPUrsEPRGR4xlunETBckTsPMqz7C7MGI8teRIY5JOK2ZRArpCz7dH1GV4ZZrbhky-Cm9M3e4lnpATEs7O-kObv316kJ5U8HL4hGYxGIkXYSmhRJiuluvV63lrCh4oj66l/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06482" width="404" /></a> Here is a picture I found on the internet…this place is HUGE!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsbgPBqQHiIgUKcSbKjUK89mScZIygQTVre6hM7J2Tf7QK11BdgO0jJbHk5ELGGG-91wtbPDPJRp5LFY_c2OTWKKjtZ6GrYKE4P-3QsLB_M-x7LFwQKEAVCchg3p7HSBkWiTUVDpoDW_P7/s1600-h/6830_derek-jeter-aerial%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="6830_derek-jeter-aerial" border="0" height="269" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCZvCrV5e6CYUTHUGDJtzYf9H-d3zy3fNuwIws93Y_lLhddTTujC-NCFCvCir6GuY1ma3HmD3IEv77mGZHuerf5z79KTdhyNQk8Brji8mEG9FxvCWxNfvDDhYdyzEzOmZCuKV-bneq214X/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="6830_derek-jeter-aerial" width="404" /></a>  Wendi drove us through downtown and we saw where Kyle and I will be boarding our cruise ship for our November “Thanksgiving cruise”!!! <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJrD09WSkDfVwJWfNF89UXlxu3tjOqxB_joTAkIgpikE-_1bEYSuRlGz33bqqXDruuKl_yDVrBwVWYoHl5nZ1Sj0TiixKe1p5jABTTedlUzpuBzf9418i7VoNvA9gK64QPfqC79QV-ULMG/s1600-h/DSC06489%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06489" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheK7xljo5oVa_qU485DofeJn4iXxHYXXwVWBBPnH6ibBKRqz2eHHV6DO0Gfxz9ILGexlGUKGjH2X-aEOMqAnxAGO9-QYBaqyZNMr5uYj0b6wNBNPwtdL9JgTD06AFAcWI3B7O7Cr8P3eXn/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06489" width="404" /></a>    We headed back to Lakeland and went out to eat at Olive Garden. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6puynuwnMJ7zoLuBtxtrdRO4b0B2YowbYlwxoYgLMth11Bmr3LFxTcckCvEjs2Ul7TNfp3kci1wASfCdc4fkYKepcqL1Mknf1u-I6jFgH6dCR7pitZ26rVEre2vJ_QqJikmY0Wz8fx5s4/s1600-h/DSC06490%5B4%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06490" border="0" height="284" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3PVx9MyWD5jVxXS_-bHvrFnpFgms_xJoxwq0a500gOrLN4kWi5pc_8ec7mKtnGEiu9YFtycAkUGJIfA7lxj18Q3pYTu6kvA5YARcquArEuHhW3Z0j_2pyLK60Iz-hGFItPst2GxCciqFY/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06490" width="404" /></a>  It was extra fun because this is where Wendi spends about 30+ hours/week…AKA her job! ;)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5cFzoYzlVXFWzCSjhzMgejgl0mFpXihRuH_ehwI1TxcsxH1ieor1yhKoP3oaAJHp3AxppOCgCXp0ZcQxf8ln_gHa42eVrDmy2G83F9iZWxFZ66ZpxVjtphy5X9oLw7bxxliSTijufcwTn/s1600-h/DSC06491%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06491" border="0" height="471" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzHfTFJ5IsDgDEjqyvMpjKCrBQzj4PA6MOMriMzFn-5c43ppUF7tGsykZF2z3LeYqVLoLBaPCbrnH1gfnTpWt51zdMkJ6ghzIn1aH5QACSxieWyLD-l71nQwy6fNRp3JyWyTliVvLUwjBj/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06491" width="354" /></a>  I tried the free sample of wine. I’m not much of a wine-o, but I did like this, it was called Moscato. It was a sweet wine. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvk4ew_Y_mc7GR2liwi1lgBJ4wCHudioDOOK7uReiGVqe89vzLsm04uG_Q0GgiVTCqfrlIIQEBhlhdGEdwqZ7jhUeYH32SVi7mwNfuFfI0uQfNmofrHNb9u7l5O7h-SxWpxjH54kWYBmEv/s1600-h/DSC06493%5B4%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06493" border="0" height="303" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicWR7vJ3xiC2nnnYCnCDPJirVCmxn44dgX6i6b4di1JVzpoP6AoGuaLi2Ju0WFKMolu6kw9Gs6wBqxAJS-6FcUvpI6X9KkaHlKN0p5rFezAQGMIn7dzYzrdW3Nfywf510BDQu-QXoIPoUw/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06493" width="304" /></a>   Wendi knew just the appetizer, Smoked Mozzarella Fonduta - Oven-baked smoked mozzarella, provolone, parmesan and romano cheese. Served with Tuscan bread. I just think it’s fun to say fonduta! ;)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiM7jddLtw-pWLkRkTm-3s6g0APSByqf5PtTTmsUZ6TJ49NY1xTOEfPtvzrmBbYxaeh0iULOm0wq14BYUwRn9liMiPOp4SI4JEvdeA7skdP8Q5dupJUHIQdN4kEXxSqsjNun_ylRnfeUpk8/s1600-h/DSC06496%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06496" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6tADt7O40fgWJaDAAPpvYT5Orn0MFcBGEDaCv8Mp7gjPnyPZY3US4iHQidXtFaF4j_MBs7uHen0i0GCWGWJH1H8UrD_1Qh1tGpI40iKRrBCEqWQABnnaN5KMk0WI9tDhHdP_wwnCy1WPA/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06496" width="404" /></a>  Kyle and Wendi both got salad, but I opted for soup. I got Chicken & Gnocchi which is a creamy soup with chicken and dumplings. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3Y5luqCH6_4VTBNy4HhuUmcRjeI4FnD6PJJUbtxUPDFXatybRRllQ6D_PFwPqQehN42ZBfT0gDsKC9TyQupLfcYAfXi7NFnzJPqDa7uhxc6NgiR-_hODczE2gDWAkTu3S55-uUxZsJPyt/s1600-h/DSC06497%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06497" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHp8HReHpIblWbiPva-ES2q90aYj2Jbv5xRZuL6EuZsDBqet9azHL4uxWujVi0HGoogqZVWVqHlihz6Gw1ejY-kKo3ldAr20Vn4dHbJ_PeHnN64RKpkktfj46Pf_mdwoyjEA03Nm-gWR0E/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06497" width="404" /></a>  By this time I was about FULL! But we still had our entrees coming! I ordered the Tour of Italy! A little bit of everything. Homemade lasagna, lightly breaded chicken parmesan and creamy fettuccine alfredo. The majority of this ended up in a to-go box! <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEha7O46RNR9Yq6JElpRAU7cIzBkoREfGYAAXUeE-0xE2MSEZjYMkDsyuckV9tbEUOCCVdna1IPp1QST09cY1TR-L2XYtad71FCu-qT92aLoq6GCy57tODDqyS5Kp-9Wh2_8zaJn-2_1pfZD/s1600-h/DSC06498%5B3%5D.jpg"><img alt="DSC06498" border="0" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg22DqhL7-_jDUHZ1qAJzttsT_PDNa-gedwEyld2To2GROJ8lrrnUfhmG1D-A6bttbt4XPCdzV0BcVjmK3Zucazf77tR4dh_AAlwvHFTSuvbPB8-5aMhTekhV3M_mWKms1FfN6L-phZm58v/?imgmax=800" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" title="DSC06498" width="404" /></a> Everything was SUPER good and it was fun that Wendi had the “DL” on everything!! And the other bonus is that we got a discount too!! After our late supper we went back to Wendi’s apartment, chatted a bit, and hit the hay! It was a long, but fun first day in Florida! note: you can obviously tell from all these food pictures I’m not staying OP while I’m down here. But I do plan on getting some running in. I’m not going to stress over the food. I’m going to enjoy myself while I”m here and get right back to work when I get home. Oh and I didn’t win the sister challenge before I left. I was stuck around 161 all week. Once again, not going to let it get me down. Later friends! :)

Day 1 in Florida!

Thursday we made it to Florida by 3pm local time! Can you see the excitement in our faces?!?!? My little sister, Wendi, picked us up from the airport and we headed to Clearwater Beach! This place holds a special place in our hearts, Kyle and …