A contract with your family

<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container zemanta-img" style="float: right; margin-right: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/30806435@N04/4357626028" imageanchor="1" style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: clear:right;"><img alt="Urban & Nicki Meyer workingout" border="0" class="zemanta-img-inserted" height="160" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4001/4357626028_e4ebf0d1fb_m.jpg" style="border: none; font-size: 0.8em;" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption zemanta-img-attribution" style="text-align: center; width: 240px;">Urban & Nicki Meyer workingout (Photo credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/30806435@N04/4357626028" target="_blank">hectorir</a>)</td></tr></tbody></table>I was moved by <a href="http://www.crosswalk.com/blogs/jim-daly/urban-meyers-contract-with-his-family.html" target="_blank">Urban Meyer's contract</a> with his children written by his daughter Nicki that he signed before he signed his contract to coach football with Ohio State.<br /><br />It said:<br /><br /><br /><blockquote class="tr_bq">1. My family will always come first.<br />2. I will take care of myself and maintain good health.<br />3. I will go on a trip once a year with Nicki -- MINIMUM.<br />4. I will not go more than nine hours a day at the office.<br />5. I will sleep with my cell phone on silent.<br />6. I will continue to communicate daily with my kids.<br />7. I will trust God's plan and not be overanxious.<br />8. I will keep the lake house.<br />9. I will find a way to watch Nicki and Gigi play volleyball.<br />10. I will eat three meals a day.</blockquote><br /><br />Do we consider our family when we make promises? Do we make a promise to them first? Do we make a promise to take care of ourselves?<br /><br />Whether or not you agree with his ten points, it is about getting our priorities straight. In my church's film <a class="zem_slink" href="http://www.courageousthemovie.com/" rel="homepage" target="_blank" title="Courageous (film)">Courageous</a>, the fathers made a pledge to their families called <a href="http://www.courageousresolutioncertificate.com/resolution-men-book-alex-stephen-kendrick-courageous.html" target="_blank">the Resolution</a>.<br /><br />In today's stress and struggle, it is important to know what you believe. To know your priorities must come before you can follow your priorities. If your life seems to be in a mess and you're not getting out of it what you feel needs to be happening, it may be time to set your priorities and live it. (You could start with <a href="http://coolcatteacher.blogspot.com/2011/05/20-questions-that-will-make-you-better.html" target="_blank">20 Questions to make you a better person</a> to help.)<br /><br />You are a product of your habits. (See "<a href="http://coolcatteacher.blogspot.com/2011/08/routine-of-being-amazing.html" target="_blank">The routine of being amazing</a>") Habits are decided. Let your priorities set your habits and you'll be aligned with things you think are important.<br /><br />I challenge you to right now make a draft of your priorities. If you were going to sign a contract with yourself, what would it look like? With your family?<br /><br />Don't rush out and write something and scrawl your name, such things should be taken with all seriousness and intention or they are just another reason kids have to distrust their parents. We need more commitments from parents. It is hard. It would be easy not to care. It is the hardest job in the world to be a parent. We're all flawed. Our kids are too. But it is something that should be done with care, intent, and purpose. We must be courageous.<br /><br />Urban has me thinking about this and my kids as I work on book number 2 (<a href="http://writinginthecloud.wikispaces.com/" target="_blank">Collaborative Writing in the Cloud</a>) in the office today. Think about priorities. I am.<br /><br />Remember your noble calling, parent. No one can do your job but YOU. You ROCK if you care. Do you dare to level it up? Be a better parent.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <div class="zemanta-pixie" style="height: 15px; margin-top: 10px;"><a class="zemanta-pixie-a" href="http://www.zemanta.com/?px" title="Enhanced by Zemanta"><img alt="Enhanced by Zemanta" class="zemanta-pixie-img" src="http://img.zemanta.com/zemified_c.png?x-id=599e4923-91a3-4653-84c2-809c5fecf334" style="border: none; float: right;" /></a></div>

A contract with your family

Urban & Nicki Meyer workingout (Photo credit: hectorir)I was moved by Urban Meyer's contract with his children written by his daughter Nicki that he signed before he signed his contract to coach football with Ohio State.It said:1. My family will alwa…

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Daily Education and Technology News for Schools 09/15/2012

<ul class="diigo-linkroll"> <li> <p class="diigo-link"> <a href="http://www.sharemylesson.com/article.aspx?storyCode=50006437&s_cid=SML_MPU_BigPayoff">The Big Payoff - Resources - Share My Lesson</a> </p> <p class="diigo-description">"Register for Share My Lesson before Oct. 31 and you could pay off $5,000* of your student loans." Now this is the kind of contest many of you teachers will want to join! Register and join TES. It is free and open to any teacher. A great site to share lessons. That is all!  Tell your friends.</p> <p class="diigo-tags"> <span>tags:</span> <a href="http://www.diigo.com/user/coolcatteacher/education">education</a> <a href="http://www.diigo.com/user/coolcatteacher/sharemylesson">sharemylesson</a> <a href="http://www.diigo.com/user/coolcatteacher/teaching">teaching</a> <a href="http://www.diigo.com/user/coolcatteacher/news">news</a></p> </li> </ul><p class="diigo-ps">Posted from <a href='http://www.diigo.com'>Diigo</a>. The rest of my favorite links are <a href='http://www.diigo.com/user/coolcatteacher'>here</a>.</p>

Daily Education and Technology News for Schools 09/15/2012

The Big Payoff - Resources - Share My Lesson "Register for Share My Lesson before Oct. 31 and you could pay off $5,000* of your student loans." Now this is the kind of contest many of you teachers will want to …

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Tonight's the night!!

<span style="font-size: large;">Lady Gaga is playing tonight in the Aviva!!  </span><br /><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">Can't wait!! I found it hard to get to sleep last night because I was so excited ;-) </span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">Busy day today, Ciaran is playing in the O'Stillman Cup and his game is at 4.30pm.  Before that we are going to pick up an 11am yoga class.  Here's the website for the <a href="http://ostillmancup.com/OStillmanCup/Welcome.html">O'Stillman Cup</a>.  It is the first time it has been played and it seems like it is going well.</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>

Tonight's the night!!

Lady Gaga is playing tonight in the Aviva!!  Can't wait!! I found it hard to get to sleep last night because I was so excited ;-) Busy day today, Ciaran is playing in the O'Stillman Cup and his game is at 4.30pm.  Before that we are going to pick up …

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