Friend Making Mondays: Favorite Holidays

I'm actually participating in <a href="http://www.alltheweigh.com/2011/09/friend-makin-mondays-holidays/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=friend-makin-mondays-holidays">FMM today</a> :).<br /><br /><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.alltheweigh.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/FMM1111111.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.alltheweigh.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/FMM1111111.jpg" /></a></div><br />Kenlie asked: What is your favorite holiday and why?<br /><br />Ironic that she asked this because I just posted this on Facebook this morning... my favorite holiday is Halloween!<br /><br />I like that Halloween sort of kicks off the fall/winter holidays.  After not having a real major holiday since Easter, I like how Halloween is the introduction back into the months of holiday celebrations.  Plus, to me, Halloween = fall.  I love the colors associated with the holiday: orange, black, brown, deep reds, purples, yellows, etc.  I love when the leaves change colors, and when driving back to the Motherland the mountainsides are ensconced in all of the vibrant fall colors.  So pretty - especially on a sunny, fall day.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhE7BfZ-lB9qgAxKIIoLxuhCGKIbsKhde5WkzMmq569e2rn7279-yX-3a6jH_5T_HtuZARMijAn49HJ-pwPaoZ6NoX-dPK8cZc_4OI84XcTnBjjNN32n7NBAsIC_feFyaS5D-UZMFoBCwo/s1600/DSCN3946.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhE7BfZ-lB9qgAxKIIoLxuhCGKIbsKhde5WkzMmq569e2rn7279-yX-3a6jH_5T_HtuZARMijAn49HJ-pwPaoZ6NoX-dPK8cZc_4OI84XcTnBjjNN32n7NBAsIC_feFyaS5D-UZMFoBCwo/s400/DSCN3946.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><br />I love the activities associated with Halloween like: going to haunted houses, carving pumpkins, jumping in piles of leaves with my niece (and nephew someday!), Pumpkin Spice Lattes, how well Charles fits in to this holiday, the chill in the air, sweaters, full moons, spookyness, dressing up, etc.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUtz239Mqudbw9hWGPMI8se4wjh_Ol08bM3axSwJIgeCdp5t253uf5G3ciwe4WHD1P2H13L31x3SiJYACGfOpExBDx1WwPZm0ozVMKt6SQyto4LEa5Fg-zXPZ88qXBrWZfmOHF_622R8s/s1600/DSCN3872.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUtz239Mqudbw9hWGPMI8se4wjh_Ol08bM3axSwJIgeCdp5t253uf5G3ciwe4WHD1P2H13L31x3SiJYACGfOpExBDx1WwPZm0ozVMKt6SQyto4LEa5Fg-zXPZ88qXBrWZfmOHF_622R8s/s400/DSCN3872.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Of course the other holidays come in very close to Halloween, but there is just something about this spooky holiday that I enjoy so much.<br /><br />As an adult, I've only dressed up one time.  Joel and I were Dorothy and the Scarecrow.  We were still riding the Wizard of Oz high after I had just returned from 3 months of living in Kansas City, MO.  :)  I also really enjoy Halloween parties!.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh05-2qXZLN1kvMmrPom6Ar_D2tYC_Cioel6IkJ3yP7EzDOZfhNlPMVoN9Zd9_CYP3m29DFgxaB9ix4UlSy90GrMjFibdK_iiBqnyOF-4q0LFK8rE1NUNPQqY-GJCffmLJFCugitpVbzu8/s1600/Halloween+012.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh05-2qXZLN1kvMmrPom6Ar_D2tYC_Cioel6IkJ3yP7EzDOZfhNlPMVoN9Zd9_CYP3m29DFgxaB9ix4UlSy90GrMjFibdK_iiBqnyOF-4q0LFK8rE1NUNPQqY-GJCffmLJFCugitpVbzu8/s400/Halloween+012.JPG" width="300" /></a></div><br /> What is your favorite holiday?

Friend Making Mondays Friend Making Mondays: Favorite Holidays

I'm actually participating in FMM today :).Kenlie asked: What is your favorite holiday and why?Ironic that she asked this because I just posted this on Facebook this morning... my favorite holiday is Halloween!I like that Halloween sort of kicks off …

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Your nonverbal communication can wreck your interview

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><b><i><span style="color: red; font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"></span></i></b></span><br /><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td colspan="2" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font: normal normal normal 12px/normal arial, helvetica;"><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="tblContent"><tbody><tr id="trContent"><td align="center" class="cb_style tcContent" id="tcContent" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; text-align: center;"><div class="cbArticleWrapper" style="background-color: white; text-align: left; width: 750px;"><div class="cbArticleContentWrapper" style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 15px; margin-right: 15px; margin-top: 15px; width: 750px;"><div class="cbArticleRight" style="width: 560px;"><div class="RXart" style="padding-right: 20px;"><div class="ArticleHeadline" style="margin-top: -30px;"><div class="cbmsnArticleImage" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" src="http://emj.cbdr.com/artieimages/97/ar5m4zl6sk34kd4z9397.gif?time=1/10/2011%2011:52:37%20am" /></div><div class="hdr_org_bld" style="color: #ff6600; font: normal normal bold 18px/normal arial, helvetica;"><h1 id="articleHeadline" style="color: #ff7700; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><br /></h1></div><b><span id="cbArticle_lblByLine">Selena Dehne, JIST Publishing</span></b><br /></div><div class="ArticleContent"><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Giving a limp handshake, letting your eyes wander and fidgeting are just a few of the subtle blunders that can botch your success in a job interview. Although you may have been unaware you were doing these things, interviewers who pick up on negative nonverbal <a href="http://www.careerbuilder.com/jobs/keyword/communication/" style="color: #3300cc; font-family: Arial; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;">communication</a> are likely to doubt your fit for the job.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Nonverbal communication can be judged just as much, and sometimes even more harshly, than the responses you give to questions you're asked during interviews. It can even be the single factor that helps hiring managers decide between you and another candidate when you're both equally qualified for the job. That's why it's so important to be mindful about your posture, facial expression and other behaviors.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">"The most important idea is to project confidence and professionalism," says Heather Krasna,<a href="http://www.careerbuilder.com/jobs/keyword/author/" style="color: #3300cc; font-family: Arial; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;">author</a> of "Jobs That Matter: Find a Stable, Fulfilling Career in <a href="http://www.careerbuilder.com/jobs/keyword/public+service/" style="color: #3300cc; font-family: Arial; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;">Public Service</a>."<i></i></div><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><i></i>"If you find yourself becoming very nervous about interviewing, realize that this is normal. Practice interviewing in front of a mirror, on video or with a friend or career coach until you feel a bit more comfortable," she suggests.<i></i></div><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">In her book, Krasna offers the following tips for ensuring positive, appropriate and polite nonverbal communication:</div><ul type="disc"><br /><li><b>Handshake: </b>A firm handshake is considered a sign of confidence. Take the other person's hand in your right hand (don't use both hands), so that the space between your thumb and first finger touches theirs. Give a firm, but not crushing squeeze, and shake the person's hand up and down slightly, once. If you have sweaty hands, be sure to dry them before your interview.</li><br /><li><b>Posture and physical distance:</b> When sitting in a chair, sit up straight or lean forward slightly (don't slouch). If you will be crossing your legs, do it so that one knee is stacked on top of the other or cross your ankles. (Do not cross your legs so that one foot is on top of your other knee.) Alternatively, keep both feet on the floor. Do not stretch your legs out in front of you or sit with your legs spread far apart -- it looks too casual. When standing near someone, about three feet of distance is standard in most parts of the United States. Standing closer than this can be quite uncomfortable for others.</li><br /><li><b>Arms and hands:</b> You can "talk with your hands" to some extent, but do not do so to the point of distracting your interviewer. Sitting with your arms crossed in front of you can look defensive. Instead, try to have a more open posture. Don't fidget, play with your hair or pen, or bite your nails!</li><br /><li><b>Eye contact:</b> Look in the eyes of the person interviewing you. Looking down or away frequently gives a message of not being confident or being confused. Rolling your eyes up is considered a sign of disrespect. Don't stare intensely at the interviewer; just look him or her in the eye as much as possible.</li><br /><li><b>Facial expression:</b> Smiling is an important way of showing that you are a friendly individual and that you are enthusiastic about the position. Smile at the beginning and the end of the interview at a minimum. This can't be emphasized enough -- I know several people for whom lack of smiling was a major barrier to employment.</li><br /><li><b>Mirroring: </b>You can also take note of the posture and expressions of your interviewer, and adopt some of his or her tone. Be careful, though -- even if an interviewer is quite friendly and casual, that does not mean you should be too casual. It is still a professional job interview.</li></ul><br /><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">In addition to these tips, Krasna gives international job seekers a reminder: "Nonverbal communication is quite culturally defined," she says. "If you are interviewing across cultures, be sure to know what is expected of you."</div><div style="margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><i>Selena Dehne is a career writer for JIST Publishing who shares the latest occupational, career and job search information available with job seekers and career changers. She is also the author of JIST's Job Search and Career Blog (</i><i><a href="http://jistjobsearchandcareer.blogspot.com/" style="color: #3300cc; font-family: Arial; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;">http://jistjobsearchandcareer.blogspot.com/</a></i><i>). Follow her on Twitter at </i><i><a href="http://twitter.com/SelenaDehne" style="color: #3300cc; font-family: Arial; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;">http://twitter.com/SelenaDehne</a>.</i></div></div></div></div></div></div></td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table>

Your nonverbal communication can wreck your interview

Selena Dehne, JIST PublishingGiving a limp handshake, letting your eyes wander and fidgeting are just a few of the subtle blunders that can botch your success in a job interview. Although you may have been unaware you were doing these things, intervi…

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Book to Movie: In a Lonely Place

<div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrDJrymFIQxctjdVRb8Run2v1LNZZN3LOTB3Yop1qvR8xAioLu1PNCNkmZvKbmSUDwv5NNLZUw13CNuwsSsqL1VRH5Z9jXN_3VqqD4_4OgEyK7sPJM-XLyqhPNRbbVUzZQh0OJrljggRSp/s1600/in+a+lonely+place+3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrDJrymFIQxctjdVRb8Run2v1LNZZN3LOTB3Yop1qvR8xAioLu1PNCNkmZvKbmSUDwv5NNLZUw13CNuwsSsqL1VRH5Z9jXN_3VqqD4_4OgEyK7sPJM-XLyqhPNRbbVUzZQh0OJrljggRSp/s1600/in+a+lonely+place+3.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br /><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">A few weeks ago I took another look at Nicholas Ray’s haunting film noir, <i>In a Lonely Place</i> (1950). As I watched, it slowly began to rankle that the central character, Dix Steele (Humphrey Bogart), a Hollywood screenwriter with an explosive temper, is consistently touted as a great guy by most who know him. Even the ex-girlfriend whose nose he once broke remains a friend (she never pressed charges), and it's well known that he's had scrapes with the law more than once for his loutish dust-ups. His friends remain staunch even after he is named prime suspect in the killing of a young hat-check girl who was last seen with him.</span><br /><a name='more'></a></div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix's harsh treatment of his new girlfriend, Laurel Gray (Gloria Grahame), is mostly excused because, as a murder suspect, he's under great stress. For example, there's the night...</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic2XsAXY_-CmiwDxhRYtmIOOL1rvtjfN9aR6A2-CW8DgvTL68qu1vF8hsI-rei4E6FEyJIzCrfascTAB2twqjnWwyxeOVKD-wEB2vIQPvVCfig51gdmkgicACeu2UvFHkUIzU9No3BTjcV/s1600/in+a+lonely+place+beach+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="301" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic2XsAXY_-CmiwDxhRYtmIOOL1rvtjfN9aR6A2-CW8DgvTL68qu1vF8hsI-rei4E6FEyJIzCrfascTAB2twqjnWwyxeOVKD-wEB2vIQPvVCfig51gdmkgicACeu2UvFHkUIzU9No3BTjcV/s400/in+a+lonely+place+beach+2.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Lovejoy, Donnell, Bogart, Grahame - this party is about to break up... </td></tr></tbody></table><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Steele becomes pointlessly enraged with Laurel at a cookout and gets behind the wheel of his car, taking her on a hair-raising ride. His recklessness causes an accident and when the other driver confronts him, Dix’s temper blows and he begins viciously beating the man. Even after Laurel intercedes (saving the other man’s life?), Dix seems to feel justified in his violent attack because the other driver called him names.</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix refers to his own “artistic” temperament and, according to one supporting character, “…he’s a writer, people like that have a right to be temperamental.” A long-time associate comments, “…he has a right to explode sometimes, it’s as much a part of him as his eyes…” His former Army buddy (Frank Lovejoy) observes, “he’s an exciting guy” with “a superior mind.”  This is a man who challenges a stranger to a fist fight within the first five minutes of the film and punches out another man minutes later. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Because I had questions about a plot point that seemed incongruous, I became curious about the changes that may have occurred as the story made its way from page to screen and decided to read the novel on which <i>In a Lonely Place</i> was based.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I was in for a few surprises.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBRAF1BdPWvBwuSXu4VJ-qGUaPZYCn2xWN_RboW0359ZcdUVEK75ja0Di2CxMc9C22-Y7MS1FwMUe_hECHDOtStDS0EUWLBiI3jgBHw44ZPTiRX6tKgPokJFpng4wBpZnlhrzJ9PevF6Gn/s1600/in+a+lonely+place+book.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBRAF1BdPWvBwuSXu4VJ-qGUaPZYCn2xWN_RboW0359ZcdUVEK75ja0Di2CxMc9C22-Y7MS1FwMUe_hECHDOtStDS0EUWLBiI3jgBHw44ZPTiRX6tKgPokJFpng4wBpZnlhrzJ9PevF6Gn/s320/in+a+lonely+place+book.jpg" width="222" /></a></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>In a Lonely Place </i></span><span style="font-size: small;">was first published in 1947, penned by prominent mystery/crime writer Dorothy B. Hughes. It was her eleventh novel and two of her previous books had already been made into films – <i>The Fallen Sparrow</i> and <i>Ride the Pink Horse</i>. Interestingly, the author’s first published work was a book of poetry; she was also a literary critic.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">While many of the book's elements were retained, both  its plot and themes are significantly different from the film. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The book:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix Steele, not long back from WWII, is staying in Los Angeles in the swank but borrowed garden court apartment of an old Princeton chum. He contacts war buddy, Brub Nicolai, of the locally prominent Nicolai family, now married and a detective with the LAPD. Both men had dropped out of elite colleges to enlist in the war and flew together in Europe where they became close pals.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix has no profession, he’s been drifting since the war, but says he’s writing a mystery novel. He originally devised this story so the very wealthy uncle who raised him would subsidize him for a year or so while he wrote. Dix, unlike his uncle, has no interest in hard work but developed a taste for the good life at Princeton and as a high-living ace flyer during the war.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Brub, along with most of the LAPD, is focused on a sensational case involving the rape/strangulations of young women in West L.A. Brub is afraid for his own lovely blonde wife, Sylvia; the couple lives in Santa Monica near the beach.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix, who is handsome, charming and polished, is attractive to women and knows it. When he catches sight of one of his garden court neighbors, a knockout named Laurel Gray, he is dazzled and pursues her on the spot. Young but savvy, Laurel is a fledgling actress just out of a miserable marriage to a wealthy man. She and Dix soon become involved.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDkToeFERw28kwZbluR_AgKbv1Z4THi3Dc-4gB9xyjCGmgJhyphenhyphenPT-Civ-mgbSNT_mH8O-NIMxe2D_3C_fsFVudNbEshVCqXxbyrbxGHLSnlX5RgF0ct0VTqcEi7wcUnVwEOUr2VaCXCjoZ4/s1600/In+a+Lonely+Place+set.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="242" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDkToeFERw28kwZbluR_AgKbv1Z4THi3Dc-4gB9xyjCGmgJhyphenhyphenPT-Civ-mgbSNT_mH8O-NIMxe2D_3C_fsFVudNbEshVCqXxbyrbxGHLSnlX5RgF0ct0VTqcEi7wcUnVwEOUr2VaCXCjoZ4/s320/In+a+Lonely+Place+set.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Grahame (then Mrs. Ray), Bogart and Ray on the set</td></tr></tbody></table><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The movie:</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix Steele, a screenwriter who “hasn’t had a hit in ten years,” is known for his intransigence about the writing assignments he will accept - as well as his violent temper. He comes under police scrutiny when a young hat-check girl is murdered after a visit to his apartment. Dix’s old Army buddy, strictly middle-class Brub Nicolai (Frank Lovejoy), an LAPD detective, takes Dix in to the station for questioning the morning after the girl’s murder. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Laurel Gray (Gloria Grahame), Dix’s new neighbor, steps in as a witness on his behalf, but Dix remains the #1 suspect. Laurel and Dix become romantically involved. Meanwhile, Dix’s peculiar behavior one evening at the Nicolai home disturbs Brub’s wife Sylvia (Jeff Donnell). Brub scoffs.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dix has other friends, all Hollywood types, who attest that he’s a stand-up guy, albeit one with an erratic temper. Dix explodes several times in the course of the film and even those close to him (Brub, Sylvia, Laurel) become suspicious of his connection to the murder.  But Dix is innocent; the slain young woman’s boyfriend eventually confesses.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The novel takes a less circuitous route in identifying the murderer, in this case a serial killer:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Written as a third person narrative, the book presents the story entirely from the viewpoint of Dix Steele. And from its early pages, there is no doubt that Dix is a killer. By the end of the book, it develops that he has not only raped and strangled women in Los Angeles but also on the East Coast and in Europe...and that he has also killed a wealthy college pal and appropriated his home, his belongings and his charge accounts.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">These facts emerge slowly as the story unfolds and Dix, a stealthy character (though not nearly as clever as he thinks) but lacking an overtly nasty temperament, does not become a suspect until toward the end of the book. It is Brub’s wife, Sylvia, quiet and perceptive, who notices that something is awry in the man. Later, Laurel, who observes Dix’s inconsistencies and mood swings, comes to believe that Dix is the killer and confides her suspicions to Brub and Sylvia. Dix finally begins to unravel, certain from one moment to the next that either the police are closing in on him or that he’s outsmarted everyone again.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">As with the movie, the book does not depict murder, though Dix’s stalking of his victims is detailed. <i>In a Lonely Place</i> is a well-written and well-plotted page-turner. Hughes’ description of Dix through his internal dialogue is thoroughly absorbing. The writer provides no explanation for Dix’s deeper motives though, through his agitated thoughts, it comes out that he profoundly resented being raised by a wealthy but stingy uncle who insisted his nephew adopt his own intense work ethic. We know from his behavior that Dix has no desire to work but has a sense of entitlement. We discover that, at Princeton, Dix attached himself, as a toady, to a rich crowd so that he could pass as one of them. From Dix’s reactions to certain intrusive sounds it seems that though he enjoyed the excitement of flying in combat, something of the experience rattled him.  And finally, it develops that he continues to be a fixated on “Brucie,” the woman he loved during the war. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It’s fair to say that the story of a rapist/murderer told from the killer's point of view might not have appealed to filmmakers (not to mention censors) in 1950. And, though he was not an actor afraid of playing flawed characters, it’s doubtful Bogart, whose own company produced, was inclined to portray a serial killer/rapist at age 51. So, it's understandable that changes were made. But what of Dix’s onscreen character</span><span style="font-size: small;">? Though he does offer jaded charm and dry wit, he is just barely sympathetic. Perhaps emphasis on the devotion of his friends was meant to cue audience acceptance. And perhaps the mores of mid-century America allowed the brutish acts of a man otherwise labeled 'good' to be tolerated.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKSJ29nUiE4ubgZQwIMgkuoVFlMkfvzAtV8gioEutyKsqcIqpYMTOefX7MoFwQpRJX412XgOv0ElLfFLECD88_Ciway9Khrnk9sdqmOkgzEDfQkTq175Y6HwkyYzIQhQahjpKfz68WekwR/s1600/in+a+lonely+place+madman.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKSJ29nUiE4ubgZQwIMgkuoVFlMkfvzAtV8gioEutyKsqcIqpYMTOefX7MoFwQpRJX412XgOv0ElLfFLECD88_Ciway9Khrnk9sdqmOkgzEDfQkTq175Y6HwkyYzIQhQahjpKfz68WekwR/s320/in+a+lonely+place+madman.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I was born when she kissed me, I died when she left me...</td></tr></tbody></table><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">By the last act of Nick Ray’s film, Laurel has become convinced of Dix’s guilt and is terrified of him. As the murder investigation wears on, Dix has grown more unpredictable and paranoid; when he discovers that Laurel has plans to slip away, he snaps. He very nearly does kill her - she is virtually saved by the bell, a ringing telephone that brings news of Dix's exoneration. The relationship has, of course, just been demolished. It's worth noting that Laurel's lament that had the call come a day earlier it would've "meant the world" to the two of them, implies that their romance would've survived had Dix kept his abusive antics just short of attempted murder...</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The back story on <i>In a Lonely Place</i> is that the film was originally going to end with Dix, not yet a killer, actually murdering Laurel in that scene. However, Ray, who was involved with the script (along with Andrew Solt), wasn't satisfied with this ending and changed it.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Today Nicholas Ray's rendering of <i>In a Lonely Place</i> stands as classic noir, noteworthy for its intimations on Hollywood during the blacklist era. The performances of Bogart and Grahame are regarded as among their finest. Meanwhile, the reputation of Dorothy B. Hughes was revived early in the 21st century with the reissue of some of her best work. She has been compared to the icons of mystery/crime fiction and one contemporary writer of the genre has claimed that Hughes "puts Chandler to shame."     </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS","sans-serif"; font-size: 12pt;">  </span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/gWi9bvGX49g" width="420"></iframe></div>

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A few weeks ago I took another look at Nicholas Ray’s haunting film noir, In a Lonely Place (1950). As I watched, it slowly began to rankle that the central character, Dix Steele (Humphrey Bogart), a Hollywood screenwriter with an explosive temper, i…

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