Feeding has been a whole different challenge, however. I am doing a combination of breast feeding and formula feeding. The lactation consultants in the hospital, and some nurses, were very militant about breast feeding and didn't want to provide me with bottles at all. I was beginning to get very upset with them - my child was nearly 11 lbs - I wasn't making enough via boob to satisfy her and she would cry and cry until we could get her a bottle. The hospital I delivered at is very pro-breast feeding, and I was lectured on more than one occasion about bottle feeding plus using a pacifier. Tough! She's my kid - I'll do what I want. Those feeding frustrations definitely contributed to my desires to get out of the hospital ASAP. Once we visited the pediatrician - they made us feel so much better about everything - informing us she needed 3 times as much formula than what she was receiving in the hospital.
first beauty day at the hospital |
Charles was immediately skeptical |
Aside from the stress of feeding her, which was my biggest challenge and struggle, I was also absolutely exhausted. There wasn't much sleep in the hospital due to the constant interruption by the nurses checking on us. From our very first day at home, we had visitors. If I wasn't so exhausted, this might have been okay. But, I just had surgery 4 days prior, I hadn't slept more than 2 hours in a row up to that point, and I was feeling absolutely miserable in every way. I wasn't in pain, I was just exhausted, run-down and weak and had absolutely no appetite. Plus I was extremely sad given the feeding circumstances and feeling very inadequate because I was terrified to feed her. The visitors finally subsided by Sunday evening (almost 1 week postpartum) and it wasn't until then that I started to feel like myself again. I might have suffered a little postpartum depression, or it was just a product of being absolutely exhausted - I'm not sure which. As I type this, I feel mostly like myself (except moving around is still not 100% yet).
Being at home with Avonlea has been amazing, and it brings great sadness to think about the fact that this is only going to be temporary. I know most, if not all, mothers going through that when they go back to work. However, when you dislike your job as much as I do, I know it's going to be that much harder. Still, I am trying to focus on the time we have together over these next 3 months and enjoy those as much as possible!
What were your favorite moments in the beginning of your newborn's life?
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