need vs want

With Christmas a week away, we've had a lot of discussions around here about need vs want. I don't need anything for Christmas, but I can always find plenty of wants when I go to the Antique Mall just right down the street.<br /><br />So this will be my fix, my 'wake up on Christmas morning fun' to satisfy my wants. Because even though (almost) all of these are yummy, I don't need any of them.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHZZbLcucnc_gWmxhrbxcne-sy3_0m4Nl432WoO6k8fc2gSm-OmdZNNTkvRelh4xIUPmMjud-cKc6ZuRgkidG368nRj0S_68-wgXLhwCxCWtlMj-criHL2VB_0NYFNP5p1KSx0aSUCXSXD/s1600/IMG_0743.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHZZbLcucnc_gWmxhrbxcne-sy3_0m4Nl432WoO6k8fc2gSm-OmdZNNTkvRelh4xIUPmMjud-cKc6ZuRgkidG368nRj0S_68-wgXLhwCxCWtlMj-criHL2VB_0NYFNP5p1KSx0aSUCXSXD/s320/IMG_0743.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Yummy (don't ask my why I keep using that word) teapot with my favorite - polka dots. A disco tea set. I think it is a bit blurry because I was so excited. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhh9N5HMdYIYNjBko7qVFSInmS57Yp9h8fCbiiZQRcrv-RIPLkGiEn6bAJOcXjPTUdJ2jgJfpuxtDxGatveRpfTtd1yeRpj1JjOLqKJrm8m9aJLK26cMGeVNXt2L8-O9ozjUAzh6F50g6a2/s1600/IMG_0744.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhh9N5HMdYIYNjBko7qVFSInmS57Yp9h8fCbiiZQRcrv-RIPLkGiEn6bAJOcXjPTUdJ2jgJfpuxtDxGatveRpfTtd1yeRpj1JjOLqKJrm8m9aJLK26cMGeVNXt2L8-O9ozjUAzh6F50g6a2/s320/IMG_0744.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"> Great for lighting up the deck and only $20. Holla.</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJITIecAE0BxVXbJ24LTOd9xqybK20l43gGsjV8IdcfDpMMwX3kt5hvPpJ_dsd3_cDABA_dNTYhH1Ki6mnBiwt05Fa_KEtxYPOGhUrCgtyfb3198iQ_1upqAnayP8svxMZrcHq_STOFmoL/s1600/IMG_0826.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJITIecAE0BxVXbJ24LTOd9xqybK20l43gGsjV8IdcfDpMMwX3kt5hvPpJ_dsd3_cDABA_dNTYhH1Ki6mnBiwt05Fa_KEtxYPOGhUrCgtyfb3198iQ_1upqAnayP8svxMZrcHq_STOFmoL/s320/IMG_0826.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"> No, not Julia Child. To the left. A book of House Beautiful issues from 1908-09. Great for a magazine subscriber. Very cool.</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgjfHStSK29ZxW_fMFhuK75MJSzLEKM4XA2L1Pbg8ArT9hxgdGlWxQf4pmMeTqSngwXfZV4ZtbZLMIFtZH6pzT2TsCwb-OLCZobZEtAZej58pmw77pcd5gCpoEZQXTNCo2CDv_7J2FXrIk/s1600/IMG_0828.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgjfHStSK29ZxW_fMFhuK75MJSzLEKM4XA2L1Pbg8ArT9hxgdGlWxQf4pmMeTqSngwXfZV4ZtbZLMIFtZH6pzT2TsCwb-OLCZobZEtAZej58pmw77pcd5gCpoEZQXTNCo2CDv_7J2FXrIk/s320/IMG_0828.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Vintage silver ornaments at $1.50 a piece. I think these are awesome enough to stay in a bowl all year round.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_yPcKJEp4Ozj2uugZR7evUijrrL8Tep-ZDasjkNMt8Y9LHkCfT9cNpAOMxrkL0RwSvZ8dHIxb3sAZuFXLVqZbzil6oHDbWKlM__lwdqPloSySETwVdVgNeNmEsV_2r182WKZG1YLGx1SF/s1600/IMG_0831.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_yPcKJEp4Ozj2uugZR7evUijrrL8Tep-ZDasjkNMt8Y9LHkCfT9cNpAOMxrkL0RwSvZ8dHIxb3sAZuFXLVqZbzil6oHDbWKlM__lwdqPloSySETwVdVgNeNmEsV_2r182WKZG1YLGx1SF/s320/IMG_0831.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"> Bamboo bar cart - perfect for my disco teapot.</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiHGqvtiGdutA3OCLVNHrfXXFTW0CaJexrsTFRxJYL34CxcynlqncZzl5dyGK6BZ-7D5BIk3y0pO-xacYsgqu3czmLrVXYkmoypiJfn04o2rXyItibiP-9kOQkkThRPMo-xHVGOnbupmPf/s1600/IMG_0832.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiHGqvtiGdutA3OCLVNHrfXXFTW0CaJexrsTFRxJYL34CxcynlqncZzl5dyGK6BZ-7D5BIk3y0pO-xacYsgqu3czmLrVXYkmoypiJfn04o2rXyItibiP-9kOQkkThRPMo-xHVGOnbupmPf/s320/IMG_0832.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">I saw a similar one on Etsy. Gold. Bamboo. I see a theme developing...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPvoUCtHrnKEmlatrnQM7PyxTARlfVUxFLWFMHH0xoCo-Vvim3OrBq4eSYxtb_eMhJSMdQLC19skmOOI2IzkmEht7IE_fkx-Cbk5uYwQiSEutWZ4y8-3c_WSh7OPRExNH0TeFTmr4IMnjD/s1600/IMG_0836.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPvoUCtHrnKEmlatrnQM7PyxTARlfVUxFLWFMHH0xoCo-Vvim3OrBq4eSYxtb_eMhJSMdQLC19skmOOI2IzkmEht7IE_fkx-Cbk5uYwQiSEutWZ4y8-3c_WSh7OPRExNH0TeFTmr4IMnjD/s320/IMG_0836.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Funky sconces for my fireplace.</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnTRMjWQLg-di1DyAV01wXZ1Rg_GGShE6ASv7pCg1YsAyJTjUjiFAZ1Kpp9GSkbMQCf0HoPajxoSCJBBhvlYfNP_IQ8HqkF4bWdV8Khob0Yyy9u3DHSzMQvCm51F1CN_CE3qPpy81p4GhD/s1600/IMG_0834.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnTRMjWQLg-di1DyAV01wXZ1Rg_GGShE6ASv7pCg1YsAyJTjUjiFAZ1Kpp9GSkbMQCf0HoPajxoSCJBBhvlYfNP_IQ8HqkF4bWdV8Khob0Yyy9u3DHSzMQvCm51F1CN_CE3qPpy81p4GhD/s320/IMG_0834.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">These have been in the store forever and their color is awesome. Next time I have a spare $2500, I'll consider it. </div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxSEzlJrAq834aoM-Xa2GBzlrYmDrzD56zP4orHQPO_wYkixsUkMFNSjEbI6mipPOXfFS2uFePIqXIEU10o8CjhgToxlqHtRogENLZ82fcK6dxp3vHn2V3Y3bxl_SgcdkTH6w-ZFtoZO-g/s1600/IMG_0835.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxSEzlJrAq834aoM-Xa2GBzlrYmDrzD56zP4orHQPO_wYkixsUkMFNSjEbI6mipPOXfFS2uFePIqXIEU10o8CjhgToxlqHtRogENLZ82fcK6dxp3vHn2V3Y3bxl_SgcdkTH6w-ZFtoZO-g/s320/IMG_0835.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>And this does not fall under need or want but 'what the hell'. Where are your pants dude?!<br /><br />What is on your list? Anything you secretly hope to get even though you don't need it?<br /><br />

need vs want

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What you should know if you have a stroke

<div style="color: red;"><u><b><span style="font-size: large;">Please note:  if you don't want this entire post, I beg of you, scroll to the bottom and read the part about stroke symptoms. It's extremely important. Paste it into an email and send it to everyone you know and love.</span></b></u></div><br />Where has the time gone? I haven't posted for four weeks. Have I really been that busy?  <br /><br />I have been busy with trying to keep my sister's medical and financial manners in order. It's not an easy task and not one I would wish on my worst enemy. Lesson learned from this catastrophic event: DO NOT HAVE A DEBILITATING STROKE! More on this later.<br /><br />I've been busy with work. I'm back at it and have a giant, scary project in front of me. Scary, as in I don't know how the hell I'm going to meet my deadline.<br /><br />I've also been getting back into a daily exercise routine, which is something that was severely lacking for the last three months. Since my sister's September 21 stroke, I have not made myself a priority. My sister was number one on my radar. I fell into second place.<br /><br />I read my last post and actually laughed out loud. I was really in the spirit of weight loss the day I posted that entry. Then I went to Fairbanks for a week and got caught up in the circumstances surrounding my sister. Weight loss and my health weren't important anymore.<br /><br />Then I came down with the flu while in Fairbanks.  Right in the middle of my week that was jam-packed with tasks. Somehow I made it through it, after holding up in my hotel room for 24 hours, living off of NyQuil. <br /><br />Then it was back to work, to a world from where I'd been missing for most of four months. Since I broke my wrist August 6 I've either been out on extended illness leave for my wrist or on PTO for my sister.<br /><br />I forgot what normal felt like. It's actually kind of nice to sit in my cubicle, in front of my computer and think about something other than my sister's tragedy. Her health and how I'm going to pay her bills, and function as her guardian and conservator have consumed me for the last three months. Stepping back into my real world was nice, but a shock to my system.<br /><br />The last two weeks I've been exhausted. All I want to do is sleep. I'm not sure if it's the after effects of the flu or post traumatic shock syndrome of dealing with all things related to my sister. It's probably been a combination of both.<br /><br />I didn't follow Weight Watchers nor did I count calories or track my food. Not even for a single day.<br /><br />The past week I made it to the gym four times, two 30-minute workouts, one hour and 20-minute workout (Thursday) and yesterday for an hour. I feel my strength and energy coming back, although my left arm is still weak. Three months in a cast has pretty much decimated most of my muscle in my left arm. I still use 15 or 20 pounds on my right arm, but only 10 or 12 pounds on my left arm. Even the lighter weights are a struggle. I guess it'll just take time.<br /><br />My weight today at home is 183.4. Since I was 184.4 at Weight Watchers four weeks ago, this means I've really gained a pound or two (since I weighed with clothes and after breakfast at Weight Watchers). If you're wondering, I'm going back to Weight Watchers today.<br /><br />Considering all I've gone through in the last four weeks, there will be no "beating up of Diana" today. If there's one thing I've learned from the last four months, it's don't sweat the small stuff. There's enough big shit to worry about in life without worrying about the minutia. <br /><br />Two pounds will come off easily, and the other thirty or so will come off too (albeit not quite as easy). I feel back in control of my eating and exercise. I care about what happens to me. I don't want to end up like my sister, stressed out about life, with high blood pressure and having a stroke. Trust me, you really don't want to go there. It's truly a fate worse than death.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">Read this!</span></b>  </div><br />I took the information below from <a href="http://www.stroke.org/">www.stroke.org</a>. A family member that talked to my sister at 10 a.m. on the day of my sister's stroke said later that she had slurred speech that morning. Since my sister doesn't drink, this was a definite sign of a stroke. The family member is a trained CNA, and has taken numerous nursing classes. Yet she didn't recognize the slurred speech as a symptom of a stroke. She has expressed great remorse about this, but it doesn't matter now. It's too late for my sister, but maybe this will help someone else.<br /><br />My sister wasn't taken to the hospital until 10 p.m. that night. Twelve hours after her first sign of having a stroke. This unfortunately sealed her fate to a life of being unable to speak, paralyzed and bedridden. If only she'd been taken to the emergency room that morning, things probably would have turned out so much better.<br /><br />Please read it and remember it. The most important thing is to remember is get to an emergency room as quickly as possible. Time is critical. There's a drug they can give you that will actually stop the damage from the stroke. It's called a t-PA drip (one of the clot-busting drugs, there are others). The doctors in Fairbanks told me about it, but you have to get it within three hours of the first stroke symptom. It doesn't always work, but it gives you a fighting chance. My sister got to the hospital too late, and it's ruined her life.<br /><br />Every minute-and-a-half, on average, someone in America suffers a stroke.<br /><h1 class="title"> Warning Signs of Stroke</h1><br /><span style="font-size: 120%;">Learn the many warning signs of a stroke. Act <span class="subheading">FAST</span> and <span class="subheading">CALL 9-1-1 IMMEDIATELY</span> at any sign of a stroke.</span><br /><br />Use <span class="subheading">FAST</span> to remember the warning signs:<span style="font-size: 120%;"> </span><br /><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbN4vQVe5H_wvdurdHVWgqRwCleRaD45lXBcJeFvVQXUU_Ks13WW6LKCykkONMJeMevkx9PJgs2jLIX-NpCQ_r4fgryc5kxYKK0skqscWq9NFp-BBvy7DbKAvOiHfUgmubry4flANwlvKc/s1600/stroke.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="560" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbN4vQVe5H_wvdurdHVWgqRwCleRaD45lXBcJeFvVQXUU_Ks13WW6LKCykkONMJeMevkx9PJgs2jLIX-NpCQ_r4fgryc5kxYKK0skqscWq9NFp-BBvy7DbKAvOiHfUgmubry4flANwlvKc/s640/stroke.png" width="640" /></a></div><br /><br /><span class="subheading">NOTE THE TIME WHEN ANY SYMPTOMS FIRST APPEAR.</span> If given within <i>three hours</i> of the first symptom, there is an FDA-approved clot-buster medication that may reduce long-term disability for the most common type of stroke. There are also two other types of stroke treatment available that might help reduce the effects of stroke. <a href="http://www.stroke.org/site/PageServer?pagename=treatment">Read more about stroke treatment</a>. <br />Learn as many stroke symptoms as possible so you can recognize stroke as <b>FAST</b> as possible. <a href="http://www.stroke.org/site/DocServer/FAST_walletCard_2011.pdf?docID=8342" target="_blank" title="2011 FAST wallet card">Click here</a> to download the FAST Wallet Card to keep a reminder of stroke warning signs with you wherever you go! <br /><div class="subheading"><b>Stroke symptoms include:</b></div><ul><li>SUDDEN numbness or weakness of face, arm or leg - especially on one side of the body. </li><li>SUDDEN confusion, trouble speaking or understanding. </li><li>SUDDEN trouble seeing in one or both eyes. </li><li>SUDDEN trouble walking, dizziness, loss of balance or coordination. </li><li>SUDDEN severe headache with no known cause.</li></ul><div class="subheading" style="text-align: center;"><br /><b>Call 9-1-1 immediately if you have any of these symptoms</b></div><br /><br /><br />

What you should know if you have a stroke

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